How to have peace with yourself and in times of uncertainty?


Peace is more than a feeling, more than a thought, and more than an idea. Peace is a gift from God and the basis of peace is our relationship to God and the relationship to ourselves.

“We are a flower quickly fading. Here today and gone tomorrow. A wave tossed in the ocean. Vapor in the wind.” In other words… Life is short — our time here is limited and we never know how long we will be here on the planet. So, we need to have peace with God by asking forgiveness, through obedience, repentance and surrendering it all to him, and live in harmony to have peace with one another.

When we live in peace with God, we are eager to make peace with others. We can both give and receive the gift of peace.

Peace comes from within and it begins with yourself.  As Dalai Lama says, “We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.” However, some people create conflict because of lack of peace with themselves. When there’s no love, there’s no peace. When there’s no peace, there’s conflict. And you cannot have peace with yourself unless you love yourself.

Remember, God is the foundation of unconditional love. The key to love yourself is to accept who you are, be at ease with yourself, embrace the beauty in you and the uniqueness of you, cultivate your strengths and keep working on your weaknesses. Then if you do, you’ll feel — there’s happiness that resides deep inside of you. So, when you’re feeling happy, that’s where you’ll find peace within yourself.

In addition, we may say or ask ourselves. How can I truly have peace in crisis? In times of uncertainty, the secret of peace is to give every anxious care to God. The Lord Jesus promised us peace in crisis. Just hours before His own crucifixion, Christ comforted His disciples with these words, “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27).

What is your worst fear? If you should have to face it, Christ will be there with you. Trusting Him through prayer makes available “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding,” and it will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:7).

“Inspirational Story of the Seed”

A successful Christian business man was growing old and knew it was time to choose a successor to take over the business. Instead of choosing one of
his directors or his children, he decided to do something different. He called all the young executives in his company together. He said, “It is time for me to step down and choose the next CEO. I have decided to choose one
of you. “The young executives were shocked, but the boss continued. I am
going to give each one of you a SEED today – one very special SEED. I want
you to plant the seed, water it, and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from the seed I have given you. I will then judge
the plants that you bring, and the one I choose will be the next CEO.” One
man, named Jim, was there that day and he, like the others, received a
seed. He went home and excitedly, told his wife the story. She helped him
get a pot, soil and compost and he planted the seed. Everyday, he would
water it and watch to see if it had grown.

After about three weeks, some of the other executives began to talk about
their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow. Jim kept checking
his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went
by, still nothing. By now, others were talking about their plants, but Jim didn’t have a plant and he felt like a failure. Six months went by — still nothing in Jim’s pot.

He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants
but he had nothing. Jim didn’t say anything to his colleagues, however. He
just kept watering and fertilizing the soil – He so wanted the seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the young executives of the company brought
their plants to the CEO for inspection. Jim told his wife that he wasn’t going
to take an empty pot. But she asked him to be honest about what happened.
Jim felt sick at his stomach, it was going to be the most embarrassing moment of his life, but he knew his wife was right. He took his empty pot to
the board room. When Jim arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants
grown by the other executives. They were beautiful–in all shapes and sizes.
Jim put his empty pot on the floor and many of his colleagues laughed, a
few felt sorry for him!

When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted his young executives. Jim just tried to hide in the back. “My, what great plants,
trees, and flowers you have grown,” said the CEO. “Today one of you
will be appointed the next CEO!” All of a sudden, the CEO spotted Jim at
the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered the financial director
to bring him to the front. Jim was terrified. He thought, “The CEO knows
I’m a failure! Maybe he will have me fired!” When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what had happened to his seed — Jim told him the story…. The CEO asked everyone to sit down except Jim. He looked at Jim, and then
announced to the young executives, “Behold your next Chief Executive!
His name is Jim!” Jim couldn’t believe it. Jim couldn’t even grow his seed.
How could he be the new CEO the others said?

Then the CEO said, “One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a
seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you boiled seeds; they were dead — it was not possible for them to grow. All of you, except Jim, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Jim was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new Chief Executive!”

…If you plant honesty, you will reap trust.

…Whoever can be trusted with little things can also be trusted with much or big things.

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“If you ask the CEO of some major corporation what he does, he will say, in all honesty, that he is slaving 20 hours a day to provide his customers with the best goods or services he can and creating the best possible working conditions for his employees.” -Noam Chomsky

“Honesty and integrity are absolutely essential for success in life – all areas of life. The really good news is that anyone can develop both honesty and integrity.” -Zig Ziglar

“Honesty is the best policy – when there is money in it.” -Mark Twain

“Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.” -Thomas Jefferson

“The very spring and root of honesty and virtue lie in good education.” -Plutarch

“Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained.” -Lao Tzu

“The influence of a mother upon the lives of her children cannot be measured. They know and absorb her example and attitudes when it comes to questions of honesty, temperance, kindness, and industry.” -Billy Graham

“To make your children capable of honesty is the beginning of education.” -John Ruskin

“I am afraid we must make the world honest before we can honestly say to our children that honesty is the best policy.” -George Bernard Shaw

Have Faith

Leo Tolstoy once said:

Where there is faith, there is love;

Where there is love, there is peace;

Where there is peace, there is God;

Where there is God, there is no need.

I’m sharing below, seven-thoughts-of-faith to ponder where we can be able to reflect, think, and apply it on a daily basis or in any seasons of life.

1. Faith isn’t anything you can see; it isn’t anything you can touch. But you can feel it in your heart.

2. Faith is what keeps you believing in the goodness of others and helps you find it.

3. Faith is knowing that whatever happens, this power will carry you through anything.

4. Faith is the best weapon we have against fears, worries, and uncertainties.

5. Faith is having the courage to stand up for what you believe in.

6. Faith is the assurance of things that hope for. Faith is the answer to every question.

7. God is always loving and faithful. You may be shaken but not be broken… When God is in the center of your life. Have faith, faith in God for nothing can touch a soul that is protected by faith.

The larger our faith, the smaller our fears; the greater our trust, the lesser our doubts; the stronger our beliefs, the weaker our worries; the deeper our love, the longer we live! God is able!

12 Images of Inspirational Thoughts and Words of Encouragement

Life has the potential for endless change and growth.   Faith and hope are always available to guide us. 

I  am  sharing  here   the  twelve-images  of inspirational  thoughts  and  words  of encouragement follow…


1. Believing  GOD  won ‘t make the mountain smaller, but it will make the climbing easier. Hope we’ll be able to climb all our mountains today and everyday, and see the clear view of life.

2. When it rains, it pours… but soon, the sun shines again. Stay positive – Better days are on their way.

3. Sunrise makes our mornings beautiful but the word of God strengthen us and make our lives more meaningful.

4. May GOD send His love like sunshine in His warm and gentle ways to fill every corner of your heart and give your day a good start.

5. When we are weak and in despair, Our Mighty God is near; He’ll give us strength and joy and hope, And calm our inner fear. No one is hopeless whose hope is in God.

6. May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13

7. God understands we are not strong all the time. He knows that sometimes, all we can do is rest in His arms as He can take us through the journey of this life.

8. When God looks at you. He sees great things about you that everybody else ignores.

9. We are not supposed to always understand why certain things happen. We don’t have to always know the reasons why GOD allows some things to take place. All that is asked from us is to TRUST Him completely and let Him be in control.

10. COURAGE isn’t having the strength to go on. It’s going on when you don’t have the strength.

11. Keep on smiling! Life’s challenges are DESIGNED not to break us but to bend us toward GOD.

12. Every morning is a fresh opportunity to find God’s extra-ordinary love in the most ordinary places! Don’t forget to thank GOD for another waking moment, for another day to live.

Every morning has a new beginning, a new blessing, a new hope, and it’s a perfect day because it’s God’s gift. Have a blessed, hopeful, perfect day to begin with.

The Lord’s Prayer


Prayer lifts our hearts above the battles of life and gives us a glimpse of God’s power which spells victory and hope.

“The Lord’s Prayer”

Our Father who art in Heaven…

Hallowed be thy name,

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done

… on earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread

… and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.

For yours is the kingdom, the Power and the Glory,

forever and ever. Amen

Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. -Mark 11:24 (KJV)

During this challenging time, it can be difficult to keep the fear at bay,  but the passage in the scripture of Psalm 91:2 says, “I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God, in Him will I trust.”  (KJV)

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.  My love be with you all in Christ Jesus.   Amen.  -1 Corinthians 16:23-24  (KJV)

Stay well and safe everyone.  God bless us all.

The Giving And Receiving Feedback In Human Communication

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Both in giving and receiving it… We need to  practice  giving  clear  indications of how much of  a message  sent  us  is actually  received  and   also train our senses  to observe  clearly  how  our messages  are  responded  to  by others.

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To start, let us say that all human beings need the contact  of  relationships  and that  all organizations  and  the people in them do not  operate in a vaccum.   Even hermits,  living in a  cave  in  a mountainside,   have  contacts  with   the environment which make it essential that they  responds.   When  they  are  hungry, they  must  find food,   responding  to the message  from  their  stomachs.    When they  feel the  cold   wind   blow  they respond by seeking shelter or putting on protective   clothing.   Although   hermits may   have  little  verbal communication, they   still  must  be  involved in sensing feedback  and  adjusting  their moves to what  happens  to them  in  their surroundings.

Because  few  of  us  are  hermits  in this same  sense,  we need to adjust not just to the cold  or  to  hunger,   but  to  the constant  stream  of  messages  we  get from others in the course of a day.   The number of messages we send or receive may   vary   just  as  our  ability  to  react appropriately may vary from one  person to   another.    In   this  way  we  begin  to identify    those   who    can   give     clear instructions, those who can do what they are  asked,   those  who  can understand complex  information,  those  who   have difficulty in grasping new ideas. Much of the  ability  to  perform    well  in assignments  is  related  to  the ability to give and receive feedback. The sensitive person  can  pick  up the cues offered by another who does not understand  some instructions — maybe it is the  professor responding  to  a  quizzical  look  on the face of a student, and then asking “What is not clear in  what we have been  saying?” The sensitive person also can predict what parts of a message may be subject   to  confusion,   and   restate  or clarify   those  parts  without even being asked,  simply  because  he  or  she has anticipated the hearer’s confusion.

In communication , people need to share  meanings  of words and messages.  It is important for them to know that  communication is transactional —  that is, it  takes   place between  people  under some   kinds   of rules which we agree to follow.     One of the rules is that if someone looks angrily at us after we have made a remark,   we need to figure out what it was we said to make that person angry.  Another rule is that if the listener smiles and nods,   we are  thereby  permitted  to continue with that  kind  of    message.       So    our transactions are affected by the kinds of feedback we receive — whether negative, which   pulls   us   up   short,  or  positive, which    encourages     us  to  go   ahead. Words   don’t   mean,  people  mean  and meaning   is   the  relationship  we make between   a   word   and  what  the  word stands     for.     Meaning  is  the  key   to communication.      Meaning    is    what communication   is   about.    When   we communicate  with one another,  we are attempting  to translate in to a  symbolic system (language) a meaning we have in our  head  so that another person,  upon seeing  or  hearing  the symbolic system, will  translate   it  back  into   a   meaning similar to ours.    The key here is that the function    of   the  symbols  we  use is to make    meanings    appear   in   people’s minds.    If   the   symbols  elicit    similar meanings in different people,  then these people understand the message.    If the meanings  we  have  for words vary from person  to  person,  so  do  our  emotions vary.   It   is    important    in    our communication transactions to be aware of both content and emotion.

There    is   a      tendency    in all of us to sometimes pretend we understand when we  really do not.     It  is  not  considered intelligent  to   ask,   “what  do you mean by…?     and  we may try to avoid looking stupid.   As a result,  we may miss some important  messages by pretending and give the other person feedback which is false.   Two factors are important here: first,  that   we try to  give more honest feedback  about  our  depth of understanding,     and   second,  that  we make  it easy for the other person to say he or she  does  not  understand.    If you can  reduce  the  other  person’s  anxiety about asking questions by suggesting in advance  that  you  may not be making it clear,   you   may  receive  more    honest feedback.    On  the  other  hand, we may have  to  swallow our pride and admit we do   not   understand,   and  thus  provide more    honest   feedback   to   the   other person’s message.

Preparing   the  way  for a message has been    called  “feedforward”   for  an obvious     reason   —  it  sets  up    the possibility of getting feedback.  Making use of appropriate feedforward, should assist the feedback process.  You may also  precede  a  statement  you  make with a feedforward phrase such as, “If you   have  no   plans  for tonight… ” or Let’s         talk      about      next week’s assignment…” which gives the cues to your listener that you expect a response and  what  directions  the  discussion  is going to take.

*feedforward

noun

The    modification or control of a process using its anticipated results or effects.

From Oxford

The  concept of feedforward should not be described  as  apart   from feedback,   but  rather as a specialized activity within a total feedback system. Feedforward  will help  anticipate actions.

Two people riding together on a bus as strangers will make a number of moves to test whether or not the other is ready to talk, and what they will they talk about. Feeding  forward  in  our communication will  usually  result  in  more  appropriate responses in one another as we begin to operate   the  give-and-take  of communication.

Also, emotion is involved in the feedback process.    Our attention to feedback will help  us  verify  who we are in relation to others,   as  well  as  what  is  said.    We discover   who   we  are by watching the reactions of others.   How others see us, will  significantly  improved when we are given feedback.    Just having  feedback available,  however,  is  not  enough.  We need  to know how to handle it — that is, how  to  give  it appropriately and how to receive it intelligently.

Some Suggestions for Giving and Receiving Feedback in Human Communication follow

1.) Focus Feedback on Behaviors rather than on the Person

We generally can look more objectively on  what  we  do  than  what somebody says we are. Our behaviors, or actions, are  only  a  momentary  part of us and therefore   we  feel  more    comfortable about being challenged to change them. If   someone   calls  us   “dishonest,”    it sounds quite different from their saying we acted     “dishonestly”    in    a   given situation. We cannot tolerate very well an attact on     “us”    which   is  what   much criticism   sounds   like.   If  someone is critical  of  our  behavior,   we can more easily   accept   responsibility  for   that action, rather than tell ourselves we are a product of our genetic inheritance and for  that  reason  cannot   possibly be blamed nor think of changing.

Behaviors include those things a person does  well as  much  as  the things done badly. In describing behaviors we tend to concentrate    on   those   which  need improvement,   but   a  person  can often learn  much  from  feedback about those actions   which   facilitate,   support,    or improve communication. Descriptions of behaviors   should  not  be  evaluative or selective,  but should comment on what went on.

2.) Focus Feedback on Observations rather than Inferences

Observations   are   those   things which could  be  seen or heard  by anyone,  but inferences are   your own interpretations or conclusions about what went on. If we spice  our observations  with  inferences, we  tend  to  obscure   feedback,   so  we must be careful to differenciate when we are  making  inferences,  or extentions of our observations.

Observations   involve  what is going on, not what  happened  at  some   previous time or some  persistent characterisitcs you  have  noticed  over   a  long   period. Research  of Journal applied Behavioral Sciences has shown that feedback given as soon as appropriate after observation will be more specific, more concrete, and generally more accurately reported.

3.) Focus Feedback on Description rather than Judgment

As in case of  focusing on behaviors,  to use description is to avoid evaluation of the other person or of his or her actions. Description  attempts to remain  neutral, but judgment takes sides.

Concentrate  on  the  “what”  rather than the   “why.”   Again   the   “what”  of   the behavior  is  observable  by bothers and therefore  can  be checked for accuracy. The   “why”   of  a  person’s  behavior  is inferred and leads us into the dangerous area  of ‘intentions”   and   “motives” and the  emotionalism  which  goes with it. It may  be  useful  at  times  to  explore the  “why”   of  behaviors,  but  this should be done   with   the  help and consent of the person  being  discussed.   Most   of   us enjoy   playing  “shrink” to all our friends, but we should realize that our analysis of the   other  person’s   behaviors  may  be more   subject   to   our  own aberrations than  to  theirs.   If we concentrate on the ‘why,”   we  may  miss  much  of  the very useful “what” of feedback.

4.) Focus Feedback on Sharing of Ideas and Information rather than on Giving Advice

a. We  need  to feel a joint responsibility for the outcome of  the feedback encounter  and  be  ready  to  assist  the other rather  than  direct  his  or   her responses.

b. Telling  another   what  to  do  with the information we give does not leave them free  to  determine  what  the appropriate course of action for them will be. Advice giving  is  a  poor  attempt  at  problem solving  which  does  not  give  the   other person  leeway  to  make  his  or her own choices.

c. Explore  alternatives  rather  than provide solutions. If we concentrate on a variety  of  available  responses,  we can help  move  toward  a  more  satisfactory answer. Too often we have ready at hand a  list  of   solutions   waiting  for  the problems  to come along which might fit. When  we  offer  a  solution, ready-made from  our  own experience,  it may not be useful  to  someone  based  on his or her experience or because the problem may not be exactly as we saw it.

5.) Focus Feedback on What It May Do to Who Receive It

a. If  giving  feedback is only making you feel  good,   you  may  not  be  helping as much as you are imposing.

b. Be aware  of  how  much  feedback another  person can handle at one time. Avoid  the  long recitation “and then you did…” after the recipcient has given you some  feedback  that he or she is full to the  brim.  After  that  time  you are only satisfying  your  own  need, and not the other person’s need.

c. Emotional reactions may result when feedback  is  given at the wrong time or place.  This  is  particularly  true  in  the more  sensitive  and  personal  areas of human behavior. Even if you have some worthwhile  points to make, they should be presented with the recipient in mind.

*feedback

noun

1.  information about reactions to a product,  a person’s performance of a task,  etc.   which is used as a basis for improvement

2.  the modification  or  control of a process  or  system by its results or effects,  e.g.  in  a  biochemical pathway  or  behavioral  response.

From Oxford

Are You Happy Enough?


Some days, life is a bowl of cherries. Other days, life is a buffet of negative and positive possibilities. Everything happens according to the law. In every cause there is an effect. In every effect there is a cause. Everything has its opposite. Up and down, moving in and out, swinging back and forth. And there’s happiness and sadness.

Are you happy enough? I believe you are! Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned , earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.

Put your feet on the ground and realize that you’ve been given a gift, another chance to live your life and do your best. See each day as a new beginning – leading to the happiest ending of all.

Awaken today and every day with the gift of love, the grace of a grateful heart, and the capacity to look toward the brighter side of things. Rise each morning filled with an enthusiastic purpose that gives you joy, for joy will give you wings.

A grateful heart is indeed a happy one. When it comes to gratitude. The Universe loves gratitude. So make a commitment to give thanks each day. Every day – look for things to be grateful for and you will truly feel happy.

Make “thank you” your catchphrase. As you walk from one place to another, say “thank you”, and make your last thought at night be one of giving thanks for the day. Be grateful under all circumstances, no matter what is happening around you. Saturating yourself with gratitude will change your life beyond your comprehension. When you radiate and live gratitude, you press the ON switch to the Universe and it will deliver all the good to you, matching the intensity of your gratitude.

However, you are an emotional being in a human existence and you are experiencing a wide range of feelings on a daily basis. When you feel happy from within then it can help you to prosper your all areas of your life. In fact, happiness is a positive emotion or positive energy which radiates positive vibes to attract more positive circumstances, prosperity and positive people into your life.

Life is consists of personal, professional, relationship, health, and spiritual life which demands positive energy to prosper.

Sometimes you have to experience some stormy times, hurt and life may knocks you down unexpectedly but you have to water yourself with the feeling of happiness to demagnetize all those negative energies. You have to radiate positive vibes of happiness to master over your pain, crisis, and stormy times as per the law of attraction.

Happiness is not a matter of chance or coincidence rather it is a matter of your own personal choice in the highway of your life. If you send the positive vibes of happiness, love and respect despite of sadness, frustration, and disrespect then you can attract more happiness, love, and respect in return as per the law of attraction.

The feeling of happiness helps to attract more positive thoughts, creative ideas, confidence, and generous attitude which are essential ingredients for living positive life.

Life may not always shower you with prosperity and positive circumstances but you have to pretend and act to be happy even in darkest times to attract happiness in your life. As valid truth says “fake it till you manifest it believing that you can manifest it into your physical experience”. The feeling of happiness is like a positive shield which can protects you from all the negativity in your day to day life.

Moreover, I believe you have heard the phrase “This Too Shall Pass”. As for me, I’ve heard it many times and even more frequently these days specifically across social media.

Several years ago, back then, I learned that this golden saying come into view or sight in the works of Persian poets and in Jewish folklore from King Solomon.

This Too Shall Pass phrase originates from a fable of a powerful King who asked wise men to create a ring that will make him HAPPY when he is sad, and vice versa. After deliberation the sages (a profoundly wise person) handed him a simple ring with the words “This Too Shall Pass” etched on it, which has the desired effect.

When you are on top of the world it is but a fleeting moment – things change. Remember, this too shall pass. On the other hand, when you are at your lowest or in the saddest moments, remember also, all nights are followed by day – this too shall pass.

So when we are in the valley, let us encourage ourselves to be hopeful and when we are at the peak, let us remind ourselves to be humble.

Last but not least, ask yourself what would make you happy? As soon as you have an answer, make some time to do it. Give yourself time every day to do something you enjoy. It’s your life. Spend a portion of every day doing something you’d like to do, something just for you. It doesn’t matter what it is – as long as it makes your heart smile and makes your soul happy as well. No matter how busy your day may be, never give yourself less. Find the things that most matter to you – something that provide your deepest satisfaction.

* happy

adjective

1. feeling or showing pleasure or contentment

2. fortunate and convenient

-From Oxford

* Happiness

The term happiness is used in the context of mental or emotional states, including positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. It is also used in the context of life satisfaction, subjective well-being, eudaimonia flourishing and well-being.-Wikipedia

Focus On Yourself, Not Others

A new year always seems to be a time of contemplation and analysis. Where are you now? Where are you going? Where would you like to be?

Remember: Your eyes are placed in the front of your head because you are engineered to move forward. This is not a time to look back at past events that brought you pain and hurts or a time to regret some things that have caused you feeling disappoints and frustrates. This is the moment to continue working for your better self (being better than you used to be) and to seize your infinite potential and possibilities.

According to Webster‘s NewWorld Dictionary, contemplation means 1. thoughtful inspection, study etc. 2. religious or mystical meditation 3. expectation or intention. While analysis means 1. a separating or breaking up of any whole into parts, esp. with examination, interralationship, etc. 2. a statement of the results of this process.

Working for the better self isn’t instant, it is a process. If you want to grow and become the best person you can be, you’ve got to be intentional about it… nobody improves by accident.

As they say, like a fine wine, we improve with age and so does wisdom come with age as well. I believe it’s not true, sometimes age comes alone.

Growth is a choice, a decision that can really make a difference in a person’s life. The only way to improve the quality of your life is to improve yourself. There is no sure way to make other people in your environment improve, the only thing you truly have the ability to improve is yourself. And the only way you will grow is if you choose to grow.

In addition, be kind and understanding of yourself. Be especially kind to yourself if you behave in a way that you dislike. Talk kindly to yourself and be patient with yourself. Forgive yourself, and then when you do not act as you want to, use your actions as a reminder of where you are and where you are not. The more you extend kindness to yourself, the more it will become your automatic response to others.

In order to make positive changes, you, the same thing with me, have to face yourself head on. You have to understand how you elevate and intensify negative situations. The expression of yourself you need to display depends on you. It can be love, kindness, patience etc. Whatever expression of yourself you display with makes you really feel good inside.

Shifting perception works well. If you change your thoughts, actions and words in a positive way, you bring about an incredible shift in your perception of how your life plays out on a day-to-day basis.

Work each day to clear yourself of the two factors that do the most to inhibit our personal transformation: negativity and judgment. The more negative your thoughts, the more likely you are to look exclusively at the physical side of you, and to behave in such a way as to destroy your body as well. It keeps you clogged up just as cholesterol clogs up in artery. Every negative thought is an inhibitor to personal transformation.

Moreover, meditation is a powerful tool, and it is as simple as breathing. Allow yourself time to meditate. You should choose your own style of meditation. Try it. Use your own method. But give yourself the time and quiet space to be alone with the invisible you. Miracles are waiting for you in that spectacular space. Go there, it is truly exquisite.

Take a moment with your eyes closed. Imagine what you can create in your life. You can imagine yourself doing anything. You can have a perfect relationship with your parents and siblings in pure thought. You can be anything, go anywhere, experience all that you want in this dimension of thought. There are no limits to your ability to think.

As St. Paul suggests in Romans 12:2

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. [KJV]

This is the place of transformation. This is the place where you can not only live a miracle, but create miracle as well. We can make higher levels of living a regular part of our daily regimen by believing you are a soul with a body rather than a body with a soul. We will begin to see miracles occuring simply because we believe in them and expect them to materialize for us. In fact, you will become a miracle worker yourself.

May you walk only in the light. May you find everlasting sense of love in your life. May the year brings you peace, health, comfort, joy, abundance, prosperity, fulfillment and happiness.

10 Healthy Habits that Lead to Happiness

Everyday is made up of an infinite amount of choices. Choose to be happy and be the best version of yourself. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. Remember that no one person in life can make you happy. True happiness comes from within.

No one is born happy though, but all of us born with the ability to create happiness. Here are ten-step-guide of a healthy habits that lead to happiness in one’s life.

1) Pray

A good way to both start and end the day. Prayer helps develop an outlook founded on gratitude for and appreciation of what one has. Prayer comes in different forms for different people . What is important is to spend time searching your soul and listening to the voice that guides you and answers your questions about life and its purpose.

2) Take time to be silent, to meditate, to quiet the internal dialogue

In moments of silence, realize that you are reconnecting to your source of pure awareness. Pay attention to your inner life so that you can be guided by intuition rather than externally imposed interpretations of what is or isn’t good for you.

3) Greet each day with optimism

Lift your head high to all that is right in your world, and expect even better things to come. Focus on what makes you happy, cultivate your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Surround yourself with people you value and be sure to treat them well. Practice gratitude and strive to learn when you do mistakes. But whenever you are having a difficult time, ease that burden by setting aside any lingering negative perspectives. Instead, clear your mind, awaken to the immense beauty all around you and count your blessings. Make an effort to be thankful for what you have and who you are each day. You may do this even if you want more. Stay positive that the things you’re waiting and hoping for tend to arrive at the most unexpected moments.

4) Live in the present for it is the only moment you have

Keep your attention on what is here and now; look for the fullness in every moment. Accept what comes to you totally and learn from it, and then let it go. The present is as it is because the universe is as it is. Don’t struggle against the infinite scheme of things. Instead, be at one with it.

5) Find humor in any situations

Stay away from negative people. Surround yourself with positive friends and family instead. Be with the people who can be your support system and can even make you laugh. Read or watch something funny… Have a good laugh. So why does laughing so good? For many years, both psychological and physiological. The most obvious is that laughing improves our mood. Laughing can help keep away negative emotions, depression and anxiety. Laughter is also stress – relieving. When we laugh, endorphins, the body’s natural pain killers are released. Studies have shown that laughing can cause blood vessels to expand, increase blood flow and reduce blood pressure. More oxygen is sent to cells, which can speed healing and improve all kinds of body functions. All of this clearly warrants that laughing be taken seriously (but not too seriously) as part of a healthy lifestyle.

6) Replace fear – motivated behavior with loved – motivated behavior

Fear is the product of memory which dwells in the past. Remembering what hurts us before, we direct our energies toward making certain that an old hurt will not repeat itself. But trying to impose the past on the present will never wipe out the threat of being hurt. That happens only when you find the security of your own being, which is love. Motivated by the truth inside you, you can face any threat because your inner strength is invulnerable to fear.

7) Listen to your body’s wisdom which expresses itself through signals of comfort and discomfort

When choosing a certain behavior, ask your body, “how do you feel about this?” If your body sends a signal of physical or emotional distress – watch out. If your body sends a signal of comfort and eagerness – proceed.

8) Relinquish your need for external approval

You alone are the judge of your worth; and your goal is to discover infinite worth in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. There is great freedom in this realization. On the other hand, everything is (being) valued by people differently. Don’t put yourself in a wrong place – who do not value you. Because people who can see your true value knows your worth and will appreciate you. Know your worth.

9) Don’t contaminate your body with toxins, either food, drink, or toxic emotions

Our body is more than a life – support system. It is the vehicle that will carry us on the journey of our evolution. The health of every cell directly contributes to your state of well – being, because every cell is a point of awareness within the field of awareness that is you.

10) Shed the burden of judgment and you will feel much lighter

Judgment imposes right and wrong or situations that just are. Everything can be understood and forgiven, but when you judge, you cut off understanding and shut down the process of learning to love. In judging others, you reflect your lack of self-acceptance. We should remember that every person we forgive adds to our self – love. When we love ourselves, we refuse to allow others to manage our emotions from afar. Forgiveness is our means to that end. When we choose this option, it eventually becomes an automatic reaction toward those who treat us contemptuously, and then, of course, forgiveness is no longer required. Forgiveness is an act of self – love, rather than some altruistic saintly behavior. It gives us control over our inner life and thoughts.

Happiness isn’t something you can just find – it is more of a state of being you create.

Whatever the season of life, to be happy still your choice. Happiness is a choice after all, so choose to be happy.

Is Life Perfect?

“This life is the only one I’m given. I will live it well. I will do all I can to make the most of each day, each minute, and each moment. I will do the things I’ve always dreamed of doing and be the things I’ve always wished to be. Instead of sitting and waiting for the good things to come, I will stand up and create them.”

Most of us would agree that life has its ups and downs. Wise King Solomon believed this and reflected on our responses to fluctuating circumstances. In Ecclesiastes, he wrote: “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven… a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance” [3:1-4].

It’s hard for us to accept the fact that our priorities are not the same as God is. We attach too much importance to things like wealth and success. To Him challenges that often seem most important to us at the time are really not very significant. But God trusts us to make the best use we have and to make our lives meaningful and beneficial to others no matter where we are. Whatever season you are in right now or at the moment of your life each season should motivate us to seek the LORD and trust Him for He will help us to turn to Him not only in sadness but also in joy. And if we draw nigh to Him… He will also draw nigh to us and helped us through the good times and the bad because God loved us.

Every season needs faith to get us through it. No matter how sad you may feel at times, be confident that hope will awaken with you. Faith reach out to you; take hold of them, and you will find that you will be able to smile again and truly be happy once more. How we deal with life is really a matter of personal choice, so choose to be happy. Above all, trust in God’s handcrafted plan that He has made just for you. Let Him love you through life’s joyous and painful aspects; if you do you will find inner peace and joy. As the passage of Scripture in Matthew 11:28 writes, “Come to ME, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”

According to Webster’s New World Dictionary. The defintion of Perfection means 1. the act or process of perfecting 2. the quality  or condition of being perfect; extreme degree of excellence according to a given standard 3. a person or thing that is the perfect embodiment of some quality — to perfection completely; perfectly.

Perfection is just an idea, a theory. It represents flawlessness and completion. It is simply a perception. One person’s concept of what is perfect can be vastly different from what another person perceives to be perfect. Our eyes, may see the details, but it is our hearts and minds that ultimately decide what perfection means.

If you ask a happy person, why they are always happy, their answer may surprise you. More often than not, the gist of their glee stems not from anything measurable or material, but from a simple appreciation of life itself. You can spend your energy struggling over all the things that aren’t right in your life, or you can infuse your energy by understanding that you may not have everything you want, just the way you want it, but you probably have more than what you need.

Perhaps life feels so much less than perfect that we find it hard to bear. But even in the darkest hours blessings are abound… there is perfection in everyone’s life. Life is beautiful in its fragility, transcience and importance. So, let’s live life to the fullest. Laugh, love and be grateful. Life is wonderful… Let’s enjoy its wonders and perfection. If you understand what really matters — you will find its life’s beauty and perfection.

Your life is perfect. It is only when we take the time to look over our lives that we can truly see how some things came to be by perfection — reflection. Through reflection, most of us will find that we have a lot to be thankful for, and begin to understand how perfect our life really is. And we can try looking in these places…

*You. You should always be number 1 on your list, the mere fact that you have lived well this long is a testament to your own personal perfection. You are already whole, already complete. You are not going to get it all, you are it all already. Give this some serious personal consideration. If you are not enjoying your life right now, with what you have accumulated, with your current state of health, and in your present job and relationships, you will not appreciate and enjoy new or different life conditions. Our ability to enjoy life comes from how we choose to process life, rather than from externals. Nothing outside of ourselves has the power to bestow happiness or fulfillment on us. What determines the quality of our life is our choice to be fulfilled or not, based upon how we think, how we view ourselves and our place in the universe. Consequently, if you are a person who needs more in order to feel complete, then you will still feel incomplete when you have acquired more.

You may have that feeling of being not perfect but you are perfectly you. You have a great gift and that gift is yourself. Feel really good about who you are and all the things you do and the things you have. Appreciate your uniqueness. Realize what a beautiful soul you have. Understand the wonder within.

*Your Health. Give thanks for everything that you are and everything that you have. That’s right — give thanks, but not in some meaningless charade. Truly appreciate the miracle that you are. The fact that you are alive. That you have eyes, ears, feet, and that you are here right now in this marvelous dream. Make an effort to begin focusing on what you have, rather than on what you are missing. When you begin to focus on being thankful for all that you have — the water you drink, the sun that warms you, the air you breathe; and everything that is a gift from God — you will be using your thoughts/your entire essence to dwell on abundance of this perfect univesrse and your humanity.

However you may not be in perfect conditon by scientific standards, but if you are getting through the days, you are doing something right — and creating the opportunity for improvement. Whatever you do with it in a positive way will help it to expand. You will expnd what you focus on.  If   you focus  on how great you feel, you will expand wellness. How perfect is that?

*Your Friends and Family. If you are a type of person who prefer with just a small circle then keep it that way… You don’t need a large number or plenty of people in your life to look your environment more merrier, what matter is the strength of your bond with the people close to you . After all, it’s not about quantity — it’s about the importance of quality.

A few trusted – good friends and family are most important. During your most difficult moments and exciting triumphs, they stand beside you. Keep them with you always. They will make life’s journey much more rich and rewarding, not to mention fun. Also, the most memorable times are those spent with loved ones and good friends. The warmest moments in life are those where you feel valued and can celebrate in the joy of sharing a connection with someone else. Nothing can compare to that. It is what enhances each one of our journey.

*Your Life. Marvel at how a world of such chaos can keep evolving. The flow of the changing seasons, the warmth of the sun, the chill of the wind. Human and nature always seem to be at odds, and yet somehow we continues to evolve and survive. While the coexistence may not be everyone’s ideal, it doesn’t make it any less perfect.

But then, it is the way you look at your life that makes the difference. Your life is a matter of perception; you can search for sunshine behind clouds or look for rain hiding in blue skies. And you can create a life of joy. Feel love from the people around you. Feel the sun on your face and the wind through your hair. Live for each moment, and enjoy every gift life has to offer.

Is life perfect? Your life is perfect? Our perfectly imperfect life is perfect… As Vladimir Horowitz once said: “Perfection itself is in imperfection.”

He fills my life with good things. ~Psalm 39:7

With God all things are possible. ~Matthew 19:26

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. ~Joshua 1:9

God will provide. ~Philippians 4:19

For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future. ~Jeremiah 29:11

He makes everything beautiful in its time ~ECCLESIASTES 3:11