Everyday is made up of an infinite amount of choices. Choose to be happy and be the best version of yourself. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. Remember that no one person in life can make you happy. True happiness comes from within.
No one is born happy though, but all of us born with the ability to create happiness. Here are ten-step-guide of a healthy habits that lead to happiness in one’s life.
A good way to both start and end the day. Prayer helps develop an outlook founded on gratitude for and appreciation of what one has. Prayer comes in different forms for different people . What is important is to spend time searching your soul and listening to the voice that guides you and answers your questions about life and its purpose.
2) Take time to be silent, to meditate, to quiet the internal dialogue
In moments of silence, realize that you are reconnecting to your source of pure awareness. Pay attention to your inner life so that you can be guided by intuition rather than externally imposed interpretations of what is or isn’t good for you.
3) Greet each day with optimism
Lift your head high to all that is right in your world, and expect even better things to come. Focus on what makes you happy, cultivate your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Surround yourself with people you value and be sure to treat them well. Practice gratitude and strive to learn when you do mistakes. But whenever you are having a difficult time, ease that burden by setting aside any lingering negative perspectives. Instead, clear your mind, awaken to the immense beauty all around you and count your blessings. Make an effort to be thankful for what you have and who you are each day. You may do this even if you want more. Stay positive that the things you’re waiting and hoping for tend to arrive at the most unexpected moments.
4) Live in the present for it is the only moment you have
Keep your attention on what is here and now; look for the fullness in every moment. Accept what comes to you totally and learn from it, and then let it go. The present is as it is because the universe is as it is. Don’t struggle against the infinite scheme of things. Instead, be at one with it.
5) Find humor in any situations
Stay away from negative people. Surround yourself with positive friends and family instead. Be with the people who can be your support system and can even make you laugh. Read or watch something funny… Have a good laugh. So why does laughing so good? For many years, both psychological and physiological. The most obvious is that laughing improves our mood. Laughing can help keep away negative emotions, depression and anxiety. Laughter is also stress – relieving. When we laugh, endorphins, the body’s natural pain killers are released. Studies have shown that laughing can cause blood vessels to expand, increase blood flow and reduce blood pressure. More oxygen is sent to cells, which can speed healing and improve all kinds of body functions. All of this clearly warrants that laughing be taken seriously (but not too seriously) as part of a healthy lifestyle.
6) Replace fear – motivated behavior with loved – motivated behavior
Fear is the product of memory which dwells in the past. Remembering what hurts us before, we direct our energies toward making certain that an old hurt will not repeat itself. But trying to impose the past on the present will never wipe out the threat of being hurt. That happens only when you find the security of your own being, which is love. Motivated by the truth inside you, you can face any threat because your inner strength is invulnerable to fear.
7) Listen to your body’s wisdom which expresses itself through signals of comfort and discomfort
When choosing a certain behavior, ask your body, “how do you feel about this?” If your body sends a signal of physical or emotional distress – watch out. If your body sends a signal of comfort and eagerness – proceed.
8) Relinquish your need for external approval
You alone are the judge of your worth; and your goal is to discover infinite worth in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. There is great freedom in this realization. On the other hand, everything is (being) valued by people differently. Don’t put yourself in a wrong place – who do not value you. Because people who can see your true value knows your worth and will appreciate you. Know your worth.
9) Don’t contaminate your body with toxins, either food, drink, or toxic emotions
Our body is more than a life – support system. It is the vehicle that will carry us on the journey of our evolution. The health of every cell directly contributes to your state of well – being, because every cell is a point of awareness within the field of awareness that is you.
10) Shed the burden of judgment and you will feel much lighter
Judgment imposes right and wrong or situations that just are. Everything can be understood and forgiven, but when you judge, you cut off understanding and shut down the process of learning to love. In judging others, you reflect your lack of self-acceptance. We should remember that every person we forgive adds to our self – love. When we love ourselves, we refuse to allow others to manage our emotions from afar. Forgiveness is our means to that end. When we choose this option, it eventually becomes an automatic reaction toward those who treat us contemptuously, and then, of course, forgiveness is no longer required. Forgiveness is an act of self – love, rather than some altruistic saintly behavior. It gives us control over our inner life and thoughts.
Happiness isn’t something you can just find – it is more of a state of being you create.
Whatever the season of life, to be happy still your choice. Happiness is a choice after all, so choose to be happy.