February 19, 2019
Life experiences are very much the same for everyone. After you listen to the same questions over and over again, you begin to recognize the common thread that runs through all of us and how alike we are really at the core.
Whether you are rich and famous, financially stable or secure, struggling with money, no matter what country you are in or from, we all want to love and be loved and find some sort of peace in life. All humans have a need for connectedness and love. Men and women call and obsess about love and romance – and no one is ever too old to want it.
Why love is so important to us. Thought were summed up best in the movie “Practical Magic” when Sandra Bullocks character talks about finding the right person and says, “I just want to be seen… It’s not that she wants someone to see her great hair or face, she wants someone to see her very SOUL and to validate and cherish her energy. That is what we all really want, someone to see us and when they do, still loves us and cherish us anyway.
What is like to love someone…
To love someone is to realize that the other person is not perfect. It is being able to see their bad parts, but put emphasis on the parts you love and gladly accept them for the individual they are.
To love someone is to lay a strong base for your feelings, but leave room for some fluctuation, because to feel exactly the same way all the time would leave no room for growth, experience, and learning.
To love someone is to be strong at accepting new ideas and facts. It is knowing that a person will not stay the same, but also that change happens gradually.
To love someone is the greatest gifts shared between two people are trust and understanding, which come from love. Love is giving one hundred and ten percent of yourself and only wanting something as simple as a smile in return.
To love someone is to be able to see not only with your eyes but with your heart. It is to develop insight into your feelings and the other person’s feelings, and to have a good understanding of your relationship.
To love someone is to give of yourself totally, saying, “Here I am, and all that I am loves you very much.” It is not twisting and turning and changing yourself to gain approval, but it is improving yourself so that your good points catch the other’s attention and overshadow your faults.
Love is the greatest life’s gift.